Published Thursday, September 03, 2026 at 12:02 PM PT

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Gloria Steinem Is Dead, and We’re Still Not Getting It

Here’s what kills me about Gloria Steinem’s death at ninety-two: she lived long enough to see precisely zero of the fundamental shit she spent her entire life fighting for actually stick. She didn’t die triumphant. She died watching women drag themselves through the exact same absurd gauntlet she tried to dynamite in 1963, then again in 1972, then again in 1992, then again last fucking Tuesday. The New York Times ran a beautiful obit about a trailblazer, and by tomorrow morning half of America will have moved on to argue about whether women should have bodily autonomy at the grocery store checkout. That’s not legacy. That’s Sisyphus with a really good publicist.

Look, I’m not going to sit here and dunk on a ninety-two-year-old woman who literally birthed the modern feminist movement out of sheer refusal to accept the bullshit her own mother’s generation had swallowed whole. Steinem did the work. The actual work — not Instagram posts about girl power, not a corporate diversity memo that gets deleted in a restructure, not performative Lean In nonsense. She organized. She wrote. She showed up. She made it impossible to pretend that telling half of humanity “sorry, your brain doesn’t count” was just how things were. She risked her reputation, her relationships, her entire existence on the bet that women deserved to be, you know, people. And for a hot minute in the Seventies, it felt like she might actually win.

Then she didn’t.

That’s the thing nobody wants to talk about at the funeral. The movement that Steinem helped launch didn’t fail because the ideas were bad — it failed because the people opposing it never actually left office, never actually stopped fighting, never actually accepted that the argument was over. They just got better at pretending. So you get a female Fortune 500 CEO who still makes eighty-two cents on the male CEO dollar. You get women in politics who have to apologize for aging. You get the entire reproductive healthcare industry in half the country literally rolled back to Steinem’s birth year. You get casual misogyny so normalized that a man can grab a woman without consent on a bus and half of Twitter will decide she’s lying. Steinem spent fifty years arguing that women should have choice, autonomy, opportunity, and basic fucking respect — and we’re in 2026, and those are still fringe positions that need defending.

The kicker? Steinem never got bitter about it. She never sat down on a podcast and said, “You know what, I’m out, you people deserve what you’re getting.” She just kept showing up. Kept writing op-eds at eighty-five. Kept believing that consciousness could be raised, that minds could change, that the sheer logical weight of “women are human beings” would eventually win the argument. That is either the most inspiring thing I’ve ever heard or the saddest, and I genuinely can’t decide which. Maybe both.

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: Steinem’s real legacy isn’t that she won. It’s that she proved how hard winning actually is. It’s not that she changed the world; it’s that she showed us exactly how much institutional resistance has to be overcome just to get people to concede that gender shouldn’t determine whether you can get a credit card or an abortion or a job interview that doesn’t start with “You’re very pretty for an engineer.” She spent decades proving that one person, even one very smart, very determined, very eloquent person, can move the needle. And the needle she moved is still basically where it needs to be moved. That’s not failure on her part. That’s just clarity about the scale of the problem.

The real insult — and this is where I actually want to land the plane on the snark — is that we’ll spend the next week celebrating Steinem’s courage and foresight while systematically ignoring the obvious implication: if she had to fight this hard for this long just to move the needle this little, then we have way more work to do than most people want to admit. And we’re going to have to do it without her. No more op-eds at ninety. No more her showing up at protests or dinners or strategy meetings with that effortless combination of intellectual rigor and genuine warmth that made people actually listen instead of just defend. We’ve lost not just an icon, but a person who actually knew what she was talking about and had the credibility to say it.

So here’s what happens now: We’ll eulogize her. We’ll quote her best lines. We’ll cry about how much we admired her courage. And then on Monday morning, we’ll go back to the seventeen simultaneous arguments about whether women should have the right to say no, make decisions, earn the same money, exist in public without harassment. We’ll act surprised that it’s still a fight. And we’ll quietly assume that somebody else — the next Gloria, presumably, though probably working for a quarter of what she’s worth — will come along and finish the job.

Steinem’s actual gift, I think, was refusing to wait for that somebody else. She became the person who had to show up. And that’s what makes her death feel less like the passing of a historical figure and more like the moment we collectively lost permission to half-ass the work anymore. There’s no sage wisdom from the icon to guide us now. There’s just the precedent: she did it. She did the unglamorous, endless, mostly thankless work of pushing for change she’d probably never see completed. And she did it joyfully, which is maybe the most radical act of all.

So yeah. Gloria Steinem dies at ninety-two. And the world continues pretending that the battles she fought are settled, even as the legislative bodies that regulate women’s bodies are actively un-settling them. The Times publishes a beautiful obituary. People read it on their phones between TikToks. We all feel a little sad that the remarkable woman is gone. And then we go right back to ignoring what she actually stood for.

That’s not tragedy. That’s just Tuesday in a country that’s never quite managed to give a shit as hard as it should.

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